Surviving the holidays as a new Mom

We are Christian American’s so naturally we love the holiday season. It can get a little overwhelming for anyone this time of year! We happen to have an adorable baby boy who has three separate sets of grandparents who all want to see him for every holiday! 1 understand that completely. I mean our family does not see him day to day. That being said when we do go visit for holidays our schedules can get a little wonky! And if your almost two year old is anything like mine he appreciates a good schedule! I’ve listed a few of the ways that make the holiday season a but less stressful and more joyful! As it should be.

1. Do not overwear your welcome

I used to think when we visited the (mothers in law) MIL we needed to stay for an extended time. My husband reminded me that after about 1 hour and 30 minutes sometimes 2 hours at each house. Everyone’s ready to move on. This is enough time to eat, socialize, to do any holiday traditions, and have some time to talk before you leave. This time is so precious with those who may not be here with us for holidays to come I understand. We try not to put a time frame on everything and stay present. If we are all having a great time we will stay as long as we think is right. Honestly the host at the home you’re visiting is probably ready for a break by the 2 hour mark.

2. Buy (or make) everyone a small gift

Christmas gets expensive. I get it. There is nothing worse that being at a family event and everyone giving you and your family about 10 gifts and all you brought was 1 gift for your parents. Buy or make something small for everyone you know will give you a gift. Something they can use and not junk. It does not have to be super extravagant gift just a hand soap or a pair of fuzzy socks with a handwritten card says ” I thought of you.” Christmas doesn’t have to be huge and expensive it can be simple and just as sweet! I urge if you have a family get together just to ask who all is coming and have a few “ready gifts” that could go to anyone on your nice list!

3. Do not over do it!

It’s christmas tomorrow it will all be over just like last year. So do not kill yourself trying to make 2 turkeys, 1 ham, 3 casseroles, and a pie in two hours. You do not have to do it all! Simplicity is the key to making the holidays “peaceful, merry and bright.” So just go pick up a cheese ball and some yummy crackers and put it on a tray. I promise it will get eaten and you will save your sanity. If you have time to prepare a dish, do it! Just do not over commit. I think especially woman can put so much extra stress on big events when there does not need to be. Let things be. Soak in all the conversations and memories shared. You only get one family and one christmas a year!

Hopefully some of you can relate to the dreaded “holiday hustle” but remember the reason for the season and why we are doing all of this celebrating! Happy holidays to you and yours! ❤🕊

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